For women’s history month,  #filmherstory, an addictive Twitter meme calls attention to female protagonists and their forgotten, ignored, or too-little-known stories we want to see on screen…there are so so many. As far as I can tell, it was started by  curator Shaula Evans, film producer Cat Cooper, Miriam Bale and film and TV creator Lexi Alexander.

Read through the suggestions in that Twitter hashtag, and suggest your own.

I suggested a story I’ve been researching and developing for years, the story of a forgotten monumental woman builder who built the most decorated building in the world and spurred an emperor to best her.

Here’s where you can see more about my Byzantine princess story in development, including images and research:

 Click on this mind map to get the scope of the story:ANICIA JULIANA & her church of PolyeuktosScreen Shot 2015-03-04 at 12.04.21 PM

I’ve been developing this story since, while creating an Istanbul walking tour for National Geographic Traveler, I literally tripped over the foundations of a social grudge between my superlative-but-forgotten 6th century princess and Justinian — which prompted the Holy Roman Emperor to build his world-beating Haghia Sophia Church a mile down the road. The man needed to best Anicia Juliana. See my Pinterest board about it.

 

Did you know decision making is a discipline?

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Thrilled to be able to bring my longtime friend and global woman entrepreneur peer Shefaly Yogendra, visiting the San Francisco area from her base in London, to speak at RocketSpace.

She’ll be leading a decision-making workshop on the co-working campus tomorrow.

Check out Shefaly’s answers on Quora, where she’s been named a Quora Top Writer for 2013, 2014, and 2015.

And here she is, talking about “risk literacy” after Angeline Jolie announced her decision to get elective mastectomies.

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Screen Shot 2015-02-28 at 6.58.36 PMSee the photos here at Storehouse.

Key takeaways:

  • problems are dynamic, solutions are dynamic
  • going with your gut feeling is as good as rationalizing a decision
  • we all make imperfect decisions, they are only perfect at that moment in time

EDIT: Here’s where you can see my completed AMA.

 

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I’m doing an AMA on Reddit this Thursday February 5 11am Pacific, 2pm Eastern.

AMA stands for “Ask Me Anything”, an interview where everyone can participate.

Come ask me some questions?

 

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My topic is “What’s so wrong about being Selfish?” and in true AMA fashion, that’s just a starting point for what we’ll be talking about. I’ll be joined by Brock McLaughlin, manager of the Luke Austin Band and a Canadian Selfish brand ambassador who racks up karma points with his obsession of dressing up his pug Sidney Vicious, and Selfish’s iOS project manager Marat Kinyabulatov checking in from the Ural Mountains.

 

Here’s one of my favorite questions from the day: “Do you think the name “Selfish” might turn people off from joining the network?”

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My answer:

“Yes, it’s a hurdle because our associations with the word are so one-sided. Since childhood we’ve been admonished “don’t be selfish.” When someone’s breaking up with us, we dread hearing the reason “you’re selfish.” But we have to put the oxygen mask on ourselves before we can help anyone else, right? And there’s also a growing trend that we need to take care of ourselves, and nourish what we care about.

“We have an assortment of interests and relationships and ways of being. Social networking and mobile apps and visual capture tools should be able to map to those realities, and give us the control and power we desire.”

Ahoy mateys!

by Anastasia Ashman on January 22, 2015

in Community, Content, Culture, Social & Mobile

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As you probably heard somewhere, we launched the Selfish iPhone app in Canada last week.

Mobile Syrup says it’s “providing a, well.. social element that has been lacking” from other visual story apps.

Now we have lots of fun Canadians coming onboard, including our spokesperson Jack Greystone who’s been on the cover of a Harlequin Romance, as a pirate hipster, if you like that sort of thing.

He just started his Selfish profile and first visual stories

You can join us right at the website — even if you’re not in Canada, no iPhone required.

Take a dunk with us, the water’s fine.

So thrilled to share this expat lit news!

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Katherine Belliel and Rose Margaret Deniz, (Expat Harem book and blog writers you’ll recognize whom I’ve had the privilege and pleasure of working with for many years) are now calling for submissions to their new anthology for expat women writers who’ve lived in Turkey.

It’s called Expat Sofra: A Gathering of Foreign Voices Around the Turkish Table.

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As they explain,

“Follow in the footsteps of Tales from the Expat Harem by going deep into personal, introspective experiences that have a love and respect for the local culture and traditions.

“Sofra invites you to a second course by taking a seat at the Turkish table.

“Just as the sofra is the heart of the Turkish hearth, we want stories that are steeped in the experience of being an expat in Turkey. The editors have a combined twenty-five years in Turkey and are editing this compilation of essays to give back to the culture that has nourished their lives abroad.”

If you’ve lived in Turkey for at least a year, or know someone who has, take a look at the call for submissions, open to April 1, 2015.

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“At the heart of every story is a flavor. Expats pack their bags with spices from home to find that incorporating it into meals, and subsequently their life abroad, can require trial and error, a sense of humor, and even failure. Relationships flop. Meals get burnt. Life abroad does not taste the same. But it evolves. Becomes enriched. And can even become decadent.”

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My worlds colliding — no, integrating! — at Estee Solomon Gray‘s Mmindding Symposium on what she calls agile attention management. It’s a movement toward our reality as relational beings, supported by the technologies of today. We can do this. We want to do this. We are doing this. The talks were by academics who study things like proxemics and chronemics. The audience was filled with people who are carving out lives and work in just this post-industrial age reality. We’re returning to our natural rhythms.

Pictured and not pictured, friends and colleagues and acquaintances from GlobalNiche, future of work thinkers, expat entrepreneurs, TEDxBayArea, Wisdom 2.o conference, Exceptional Women in Publishing, Bryn Mawr College alumnae, Women’s Startup Lab.

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Held at Rodan-Fields HQ, pictured: Leslie Forman, Pamela Day, Karen Jaw-Madson, Tanya Monsef Bunger, Maria Judice, Monika Ashman, Shirley Rivera. Also seen at this afternoon of theory and practice of “multi minding”, relational thinking and acting for a qualitative life: journalist Liza Dowd, Kevin Marks, creativity expert Austin Hill Shaw, Bonita Banducci, Minda Aguhob of Peak Foqus, salonista Betsy Burroughs.

 

Make A Living Holiday Letter With This Collaborative Visual Story App

3 December 2014 Community

Note: This free tool is so new it’s not in the app store yet. But I’m giving you a special link to download it on your iPhone, and make this story your whole family can enjoy and participate in. +++ Every year you send out a newsletter with holiday greetings, recapping the year’s events, and […]

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On the road to Slush, the startup conference in Helsinki

19 November 2014 Entrepreneurship

In an ongoing, collaborative Selfish visual story, here’s what happened this week at Slush, the massive startup conference in Helsinki, which I attended with the founders of Selfish Inc, Rostem Hairedin and Moody Fayed. Pitching contests, Vegas-worthy light shows, avant garde gentlemen’s grooming, Marimekko prints, exhibits and panels by Finns you’ve heard of, Finnish humor, […]

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Workshop For Startup Founders: Build A Powerful Network With Social Media

28 October 2014 Community

Build a Powerful #Network through #SocialMedia – Workshop today @WSL for #Innovation Lab #Founders https://t.co/rJDa5o1Z4G #wslab — Tanya Monsef Bunger (@TMonsefBunger) October 16, 2014 Scenic Brisbane on the way to #MenloPark https://t.co/PYiUeSyN2S pic.twitter.com/cO3bsYvuDw — Anastasia Ashman (@AnastasiaAshman) October 16, 2014 Getting started with the amazing female #founders of #WSLab #globalniche @AnastasiaAshman @wslab pic.twitter.com/MpS931BVH9 — Tanya […]

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Eggshells-of-everything: fiction author Wendy J. Fox’s domain

17 October 2014 Community

So pleased for Wendy J Fox, winner of the 2014 Press 53 Award for short fiction — which resulted in today’s publication of “The Seven Stages of Anger“! Thanks Wendy, for the opportunity to read your collection in advance, and for your lovely note. I am likewise inspired by you! (I had the pleasure of […]

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